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LGBTQ+ flatshares across the UK — from Among Our People

How to write a room ad that brings the right people. A good advert does your filtering for you.

How to write a room advert: examples and a copyable template

Put the money and the room at the top, describe the household honestly, and be specific. A good advert does your filtering for you.

When you're filling a room in your home, the advert is how the right person finds you. Get it right and the people it won't suit scroll straight past. Get it wrong and your inbox fills with messages that go nowhere. Below there's a template to copy, a full example, and the rules on wording.

Money and the room first

Rent, what it includes, and the deposit belong at the top. Say whether the figure covers council tax and bills, because that one line decides whether your room is cheap or dear. (Our London cost guide shows why.) Then the room itself: its size, whether it's furnished, and when it's free. Someone who needs a double bed or a June move-in will know in ten seconds whether to message, and so will you.

Vague lines, and better ones

  • "Great transport links" → "Six minutes' walk to Blackhorse Road (Victoria line), 25 minutes to Oxford Circus."
  • "Bright, spacious double" → "Double room, about 12 square metres, south-facing, with a built-in wardrobe."
  • "Friendly house" → "Two of us, in our 30s and 40s. We cook together a couple of nights a week, but no one minds if you keep to yourself."
  • "Bills included" → "£850 a month, including council tax, energy, water and broadband."

A template to copy

Room advert template

Rent: £___ a month. Includes: ___ (council tax / energy / water / broadband / cleaner)

Deposit: £___ (no more than five weeks' rent)

Available from: ___ · Minimum stay: ___

The room: single/double, about ___ m², furnished/unfurnished, ___

The household: who lives here, roughly how old, what a normal evening looks like

Working from home: ___ (desk in the room? quiet hours?)

Guests and partners: ___

Accessibility: stairs, lift, step-free entrance, ground-floor bathroom ___

Transport: ___ minutes' walk to ___ station (___ line)

Smoking / pets: ___

What we're hoping for: ___

An example

Example

Double room in a calm, queer two-bed flat in Walthamstow, E17. £850 a month including council tax, energy, water and broadband. Deposit £980. Free from 1 December, with a six-month minimum stay.

The room is about 12 square metres, south-facing, with a double bed, a wardrobe and a small desk. You'd share the kitchen, the bathroom and a small garden with me. I'm 41, gay, work in a hospital and do some shifts, so I'm out at odd hours and keep things quiet. Partners and friends of any gender are welcome to stay over, with a heads-up. Six minutes' walk to Blackhorse Road station. Second floor, no lift.

I'm hoping for someone tidy-ish, easy-going, and happy to chat in the kitchen without it being a big social house.

Saying you're an affirming home

You can make it clear the household is LGBTQ+ or LGBTQ+-friendly by describing it, as in the example, rather than asking anyone to label themselves. Lines like "partners of any gender welcome", "we use each other's pronouns" or "trans and non-binary people very welcome" say a lot. What to avoid is asking applicants to state their sexuality, gender identity or health in a first message. Let people share what they're comfortable sharing, when they're ready. On Among Our People, members can describe themselves in their own words, and as much or as little as they like, so you'll often already have a sense of who's getting in touch.

Photos that do the work

  • Shoot in daylight with the lights on, holding the phone landscape.
  • Make the room the first photo, then the kitchen, the bathroom and any outside space.
  • Tidy up, but leave it looking lived in.
  • Use a normal lens, not fisheye, so the room looks the size it really is.
  • Leave people, post and anything with your address out of shot.
  • Add a floor plan if you have one.

The rules on wording (England)

These depend on whether you live there.

If you rent out a room and don't live there yourself, the Renters' Rights Act applies from 1 May 2026. You can't treat people unfairly because they have children or receive benefits, so "no DSS" and "no children" are banned, and councils can fine landlords up to £7,000. You can set an affordability test, as long as you apply it to everyone and count benefits as income. You also can't invite or accept offers above the advertised rent, so state one price.

If you live there and share the kitchen or bathroom, your new flatmate is usually a lodger, and those rules generally don't apply. The Equality Act gives you a lot of freedom to choose who you live with in your own home. But race is always protected. You can't turn someone down because of their race, wherever you live. And dropping "no benefits" wording is still the decent thing to do.

Not sure which applies? Our guide to tenants, lodgers and permitted occupiers explains. Once the replies come in, our guide to choosing a lodger takes it from there, and our deposit guide for room lets covers the money.

Write the advert you'd want to answer, and the right person tends to recognise themselves in it. ✦

General information, not legal advice. Always check your own situation.

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